Outgrowing the Group

By Lori Lines

I believe spiritual communities can be such a great starting point. They give us connection, shared wisdom, and a sense of belonging when we’re just beginning to find our way. But at some point, there’s this shift—where the guidance and the group dynamic no longer feel aligned with what your soul truly needs. It’s not about rejecting the community; it’s more about realizing that your path is unique, and no one else can walk it for you.

Sometimes, stepping back from that “group think” can feel strange, even isolating, but it’s also necessary for deeper self-discovery. And here’s the thing: when you’re in the alternative arts, or any kind of spiritual work, that step back can actually be a turning point. By focusing on your authenticity and your truth, you start attracting the people who genuinely resonate with what you’re offering.

It’s funny how it works—you become less visible in those big spaces, but the people who need to find you will. And in the end, that’s how real success happens: being true to yourself, no matter how it looks to others.

In love and truth,
​Lori Lines