Weak Boundaries

By Lori Lines

Have you ever noticed how hard it can be to trust someone with weak boundaries? Boundaries aren’t just about saying “no”; they’re about creating clarity, respect, and consistency in relationships. When those boundaries are missing or unclear, it often leads to confusion and mistrust.

For instance, someone with weak boundaries might overcommit to things they can’t realistically handle, just to please others. This often ends with broken promises, which can feel disappointing or unreliable. Or they might avoid saying “no,” even when it’s necessary, allowing unhealthy dynamics to take over.

Without clear boundaries, people can also struggle with consistency. They might say one thing but act differently under pressure, leaving you unsure where they really stand. This inconsistency can lead to blurred loyalties, unexpected withdrawal, or even passive-aggressive behavior when resentment builds up.

What makes it even harder is that many people with weak boundaries aren’t fully aware of it. They may not realize how their actions affect others or even themselves. Sometimes it stems from wanting to avoid conflict, other times it’s about deeply ingrained habits of people-pleasing. Either way, their lack of self-awareness can unintentionally erode trust.

Trust is built on clarity and reliability, and strong boundaries are the foundation of both. They show self-respect and set the tone for healthy relationships. Without them, it’s hard to know where you stand with someone—and that’s why weak boundaries often make trust so difficult.

What do you think? Have you experienced this in your relationships?

In love and truth,
​Lori Lines

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